ElleTree HR Consulting
Plan the conversation you have been putting off
and say the hard thing well
Answer five short questions about the situation. Steady Conversations gives you a complete script, in words you can say out loud, plus a short guide for handling how the other person reacts.

What you get, in about four minutes
01
A script you can actually say out loud
Five short sections, written in plain language, in the order a difficult conversation naturally wants to go. No scripts full of HR phrasing you would never use.
02
Built on the ROOTS Method™
Recognise, Organise, Optimise, Transform, Sustain. The same structure ElleTree uses with leadership teams, translated into words for the room you are about to walk into.
03
Guidance for when it gets hard
Tears, pushback, silence, deflection. You get a short, calm response for each one, ordered by the reaction you told us to expect.
Saying the hard thing well is a skill, not a personality trait.
Most managers were never taught this. They either soften the message until it disappears, or deliver it so bluntly that trust goes with it. There is a calmer way through, and it starts with knowing what you are going to say before you sit down.